It is explained that all relationships require a little give and take. This is untrue. Any partnership demands that we give and give and give and at last, as we flop into our graves exhausted, we are told that we didn’t give enough.”

~Quentin Crisp

I must say that this is in the top 5 biggest lessons learned this year.  For a very long time I’d end relationships out of fear of being used or not wanting to feel like I was giving too much. I thought it was about fare exchange. But I have learned that giving is a part of living! The more of myself I try to hold onto, the more of myself I waste! It’s like fresh milk…bottom line is if it’s not being used it’s spoiling! I have learned that the best thing I could ever do to assure my happiness, meaning, fulfillment and contentment in life is to give and give without expectancy until you’re emptied and there is nothing left. THAT to me is the definition of legacy!!