December 2011
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Anonymous asked: I'm just a black man who wants to show this black woman (you) some love. Its a beautiful thing what you're doing. I love your energy and your spirit. Have a happy holidays and a wonderful New Year.
The most important lessons i've learned in 2011...
“Acceptance of one’s life has nothing to do with resignation; it does not mean running away from the struggle. On the contrary, it means accepting it as it comes, with all the handicaps of heredity, of suffering, of psychological complexes and injustices.”
~ Dr. Paul Tournier
The lesson I should have learned YEARS ago is this: Just because I’ve gone through some things that are...
The Recipe to my Mr. Right (Now that i've got a...
justquani:
So to close out my week dedication to my love evolution I’ve decided to wrap it up with my secret recipe to MY Mr. Right…you’ll have to come up with your own hunnies.
Ingredients:
2 Parts Confidence
A dab of Cockiness
3 Parts Book smarts
A drizzle of Hood smarts
A heap of honesty
Lots of Wisdom
A pinch of Wit
A dash of Humor
4 Parts Tenacity
A mound of Affection
Quite a...
The most important lessons i've learned in 2011...
“Content makes poor men rich; discontent makes rich men poor.”
~Benjamin Franklin
one of The GREATEST things I have learned and possibly will EVER learn is that life will shift…over and over and over. Sometimes it’s a good tide…sometimes not so much… but SO WHAT!! The only thing that determines whether you have a good life or not is how you react to those things!!
Whether good...
The blessing of Contentment
justquani:
con·tent 2 adj.
Desiring no more than what one has; satisfied.
Ready to accept or acquiesce; willing
mentally or emotionally satisfied with things as they are
assenting to or willing to accept circumstances, a proposed course of action, etc.
Boooooooy I can tell what type of post this will be. I can write a whole book on this topic! But instead I’ll keep it brief and to the...
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“Quit telling yourself ‘No’ to your dreams before you have a chance to try!! Take...”
– Quani the Empowernista (via justquani)
“What can’t come through you, can’t come to you. If you want to attract in the...”
– Katherine Woodward Thomas (via mujerinterrumpida)
I needed this!
(via justquani)
“Life is simple. Everything happens for you, not to you. Everything happens at...”
– Byron Katie (via heartmindspirit)
EXPECT- nothing of anyone! ACCEPT- others as they...
Truth.edu!!!
Tales of the Misters - Volume I- "Mr.ex"
justquani:
*DISCLAIMER: This entry is a post from my old blog, however just as relevant today as it was 6 months ago o_O*
Maaaaaaaaan….IdEVENk where to start with this story….*BIG SIGH*…Ok. So as yall know I have embarked on this new…high profile, sex and the city, BIG pimpin’, Jiggy Dating life right???? …. Well so far it’s been closer to Ugly Betty’s love life than to Carrie’s. And you wanna...
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They should make a Barbie with no hair so every...
1kaylee:
I actually really like that idea.
GENIUS idea!!
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ellaminnowpea replied to your post: It only takes a few interactions to recognize how…
PREACH!! I can’t even tell you how many times a day I think this when I look at my FB!
Yees! It’s even worst on there!!
It only takes a few interactions to recognize how...
Hunni we are not in a competition!!!!!
If you’re fabulous…ima tell you so!
U say something funny…Ima laugh!
U say some deep ish that pierces me…Ima applaud u!
being critical of one another NEVER helps.
Most times…we don’t need the rest of the world to hold us back…we’re our worst enemies!! If we can’t support and give props to another...
The most important lessons i've learned in 2011...
It is explained that all relationships require a little give and take. This is untrue. Any partnership demands that we give and give and give and at last, as we flop into our graves exhausted, we are told that we didn’t give enough.”
~Quentin Crisp
I must say that this is in the top 5 biggest lessons learned this year. For a very long time I’d end relationships out of fear of...
And just to make things perfectly clear...
I appreciate all of my followers…you guys really do rock! I respect the different range of opinions, personalities, faith, etc. But one thing that will get you shut down real quick…is if you come at my relationship with MY God.
I promise to always respect you, if you promise to do the same….If it offends you that I am a Christian and make reference to God in some of my...
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roxxieyo reblogged your photo: My life!!!! Even the one’s that look like they’re…
Why can’t people just give themselves credit, instead of giving their God all of…credit?…
I give myself credit and my creator credit! U can believe how u choose but what do you gain from condemning another’s belief without even knowing the extent of it???
U stay in YOUR lane…and...
single·ness (noun)
hopefisch:
ecstaticwave:
1. A time to discover God’s will for your life, grow into your own person, travel without abandon, flourish in self-confidence, and become the Proverbs 31 woman you were meant to be.
2. Not a time to wallow, become restless, get angry, or settle for anything less than the man who has been chosen for you. Most of all, this is a time that shouldn’t be taken for...
The most important lessons i've learned in 2011...
weekendfatshionista:
“Part of being a winner is knowing when enough is enough. Sometimes you have to give up the fight and walk away, and move on to something that’s more productive.”
~Unknown
Yesterday, I ran into a girl I use to be friends with and all at once I remembered a period in my life where I was so unsure of myself and so mentally down that I subcribed to a group of friends who...
Anonymous asked: You're very comfortable in your skin and that makes you radiant even more. Although you're beautiful, are you working on losing weight through exercise or dieting? Or are you content with your size? P.S. This is not about your appearance, but your health.
a-z...Why not?!
A - If I’m in love. Nah…haven’t felt that for quite some time.
B - Who the last person I talked to on the phone was. My Soror
C - How long it’s been since I’ve kissed. about a month
D - If I have a preference for boys or girls. Men
E - How many holes I have in my ears. 4
F - hot or cold? Of the two I’d have to pick hot
G - The last person I said ‘I love you’ to....
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FAQ page is up...
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Annnnnnnnnnnnnnnnd WE'RE OPEN FOR BUSINESS! All...
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I LOVE their items! I’m definitely getting that Africa ring this week!! aaaand Free shipping?!? Just lovely!
It’s up to us to support small business!!
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The most important lessons i've learned in 2011...
“Part of being a winner is knowing when enough is enough. Sometimes you have to give up the fight and walk away, and move on to something that’s more productive.”
~Unknown
Yesterday, I ran into a girl I use to be friends with and all at once I remembered a period in my life where I was so unsure of myself and so mentally down that I subcribed to a group of friends who meant me no good!...
Random thought...I Miss my turtles!! One died of...
Coconut Cream Cupcakes
They were REEEALLY scrum…and i’m not just saying that bc I made them :o)
Baking some goodies for my sorority holiday party...
I’m excited to unwind with my Sorors and eat some holiday goodies annnnd I have the perfect thrifted sweater dress that i’ve been wanting to wear!! I promise to get someone to take a few pics of me tonight and I’ll post some pics of the pastries I’m making from scratch.
I forgot to tell you guys I started a side business, the beginning of 2011 called “Kupcakes &...
